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Some blame it on being a man, saying that men are inherently more sexual, so sustainable gay relationships don’t work.
In the gay community, there is always talk about how hard it is to find a someone who is there for more than sex. Posts that violate these rules but are interesting (a personal vlog from a Tuareg couple, a selfie taken with the Queen, etc.) are encouraged, but subject to removal at discretion.